I’ve never picked up a YA title thinking ‘Ooh I bet I’ll learn something about parenting. ‘ Never. Ever. I pick up YA reads for the same reason my friends watch Glee. The stories offer an escape into the simpler world of teens.
My Life Next Door by Huntley Fitzpatrick delivers on the virtuous teen romance and for a bonus throws in some to-do and not-to-do’s for parents. The story kicks off with one of best first lines that I’ve read in a long time ‘The Garretts were forbidden from the start.
‘ Immediately I thought coven of witches or harborers of terrorists. But no. To Senator Reed the Garretts are way more sinister. Senator Reed forbids her daughters Samantha and Tracy from interacting with the Garretts because they represent chaos.
Senator Reed vacuums her way out the door each day. For herself and her daughters she’s constructed an orderly and seemingly perfect life that’s imagined only on photo shopped magazine covers. Next door chaos reigns.
With 8 kids and 8 kids worth of toys cars and bikes the Garretts are the antithesis to the Reed’s antiseptic home. Yet the chaos beckons Samantha’s attention. She studies the Garretts at a distance from the roof outside her window until one night Jase Garrett joins her on the roof and invites her into his family’s disarray.
Samantha sneaks under her mom’s radar to date Jase. Their romance trots along innocently until Senator Reed’s political ambitions cleave a gulf between the youthful relationship leading Samantha to have to choose between loyalty and honesty.
A choice that proves sometimes kids know better than adults. Parenting tips? Yeah they’re there; laced into the fabric of the story. First tip: Parents who are involved in their children’s day to day lives and who accept the individuality of their children create a circle of trust and respect with their children.
Evidenced by Tim’s parents. The Masons parent at arm’s reach ignoring Tim’s misdeeds until ignorance is no longer possible. But even then they fail to involve themselves in their son’s life. By contrast Mr.
Garrett treats Tim like one of his own children. He’s honest that Tim’s messed up accepts Tim where he is in his life and guides Tim on how to be better. All actions that Tim’s parents could have taken if they weren’t afraid to be involved.
Second tip: Kids watch their parents behavior to learn how they themselves should behave. Senator Reed theoretically represents and safeguards her voters. It’s the message the Senator promotes in her campaign.
A message that Samantha believes until she witnesses her mom sacrifice integrity for image. Her mom’s misanthropic actions leave Samantha wavering over what is ethical and unethical ñ a path a responsible parent would have boldly drawn for their child.
Young adult blended with parenting tips. I’ll take that any day over the average non-fiction guide to perfect parenting. Especially stories like My Life Next Door that test how many nights I can go with only a few hours’ sleep.
My only disbelief with My Life Next Door was how constantly kind the Garretts’ kids acted toward each other. I grew up with 3 brothers. I love them with all my soul but boy did we go at it when we were younger.
I don’t care how good parents are siblings argue. It’s a fact. My Life Next Door serves up a sweet summer romance entwined with fables of loyalty integrity and family values. A great read for the beach or for a lazy cozy weekend.
~review by pagecravings. com.